Tuesday, 17 March 2026

How chastity started for me/us.

 I introduced this lifestyle to my wife, we had done swinging before this lifestyle, and more than once during our time of swinging i found myself enjoying watching my lovely wife freely enjoying herself to the fullest more than playing with the other wife/wives. No fault on their part at all.


More than once during these events, I would just sit back and stay out of the way so I wouldn't be distracting her. I would watch and get her and her partners a water or a towel. Funny I had never jerked off and our finished while watching them, but I was always hard and often leaking.

In the beginning  we would have sex when we got home almost a reclaim of sorts. Ovwr time that stopped.
The tipping point. I thought, "Let’s see how it would feel if I just lock it up; when she wants it, she can unlock it get it." She didn’t know anything like this at all, but that we sat down talked and showed her some photos off the internet. That Christmas i received a private gift from her, a purchase she made online from a store out of Montreal Quebec called priape— I was going to wear my chastity cage proudly, and I did.

It was short spurts in the beginning like a couple of days here, a week there. No real rhyme or reasoning, after a while and feeling comfortable 1st rule was when the Mrs. Had her period i had to wear it the whole time.

Also when she made plans for time with her lover I had to wear it for 2 weeks prior to her sexual activities.

Will stop here as this turned out longer that planned.

Wednesday, 25 February 2026

Once a cuck, always a submissive/cuck now?

Once a cuck, I seem like I will always be a submissive/cuck now.

So as we are no longer in the Hotwife lifestyle and as much as I hope it could turn around, I feel like the odds it really won't. This isn't a woe, is me posting.

We had some great times and I have some fantastic memories that I hold dear to my heart. My wife on rare occasions will tease humiliate me and get me heart pumping... lol such a loser.

But truth is her health is and always be #1 to me. We have a great loving relationship and household and don't read that as perfect we are a normal couple and we have stressful (not really the correct wording) moments. But we work as team to get through these. 

Anyways... blah, blah... I left the track of the post. Haha

So as I know I'm no longer a cuckold as the lifestyle dictates but I still feel in my soul a cuckold aka submissive in a big way. And this brings a bit of joy to my heart and soul.

We openly talk and a couple of years ago we tried to keep some kind of aspects of sexual kink going on. One was chastity and tease and denial. As of February 25th today as I write this I have been locked continueslly for 2 years, 1 month and 15 days.

This does feel natural to me and ot in any rush to change it either. I feel if is a tight bond between us like she almost always holding what hers. 

Now nothing to do with chastity so please don't comment or be scared of chastity. But do to age and weight I'm sure I also have ED aka Erectile Dysfunction.

Note: it is taken off often for cleaning and trimming an on occasions to switch to a different style or type of cage.

And that's today's post.

Be happy, live life and be good/kind to those you meet along the way.

Ch

If you read this far. 🤣 please let me know your thoughts, would love to hear other views if any.

Sunday, 22 February 2026

A Update.

 So let me start with the fact I'm sorry for not making a post for over 4 years.

So many reason why and so many things have happened in our lives public and private. 

So what not changed. Still living in Canada 🇨🇦 and happily married, as well as still in chastity and Pussy Free.

What not the same. We no longer living the lifestyle as my wife has some health issues. So I still feel I'm a cuckold but reality is I'm more of a submissive male.

Will try to post how I feel and going through in our journey as well as past real life stories we never posted when we were in the lifestyle. These might have some fictional part as I'm old 😂🤣😂 and we're talking over 4 years ago, but will do my best to keep to the facts. 

I will make sure to post a heading with a statement stating the facts of the post. This is still my life diary but not here to lead people on if anyone is reading still.

Old CH

Okay back to watching the Men’s Olympic Gold Hockey Game. Go Canada Go