I introduced this lifestyle to my wife, we had done swinging before this lifestyle, and more than once during our time of swinging i found myself enjoying watching my lovely wife freely enjoying herself to the fullest more than playing with the other wife/wives. No fault on their part at all.
More than once during these events, I would just sit back and stay out of the way so I wouldn't be distracting her. I would watch and get her and her partners a water or a towel. Funny I had never jerked off and our finished while watching them, but I was always hard and often leaking.
In the beginning we would have sex when we got home almost a reclaim of sorts. Ovwr time that stopped.
The tipping point. I thought, "Let’s see how it would feel if I just lock it up; when she wants it, she can unlock it get it." She didn’t know anything like this at all, but that we sat down talked and showed her some photos off the internet. That Christmas i received a private gift from her, a purchase she made online from a store out of Montreal Quebec called priape— I was going to wear my chastity cage proudly, and I did.
It was short spurts in the beginning like a couple of days here, a week there. No real rhyme or reasoning, after a while and feeling comfortable 1st rule was when the Mrs. Had her period i had to wear it the whole time.
Also when she made plans for time with her lover I had to wear it for 2 weeks prior to her sexual activities.
Will stop here as this turned out longer that planned.