Another Sign you might be a cuckold! is the Voyeurism Preference

Sign #2: Voyeurism

One of the most defining characteristics of a cuckold is the extreme arousal and excitement he desires thinking of his Wife/Lover with another man or males in general who are greatly endowed, so much he ends up with a overwhelming need he ends up feeling to  watching his partner have sex with someone else as a main focus. It doesn’t really matter if it’s in-person or if he has to  reconstructs a whole mental picture from his partner’s retelling of the story.

The bottom line is that a cuckold loves to watch his partner in the throes of unbridled ecstasy and lust….with someone else.

1.If you’ve ever daydreamed about one of your friends screwing your wife, this could mean you have a desire to be a cuckold.

2.If watching your wife masturbate or put on an erotic show really turns you on, this could mean you have the desire to be a cuckold.

3. If you’ve ever wanted to take your partner to a sex club to watch her in action, this could mean you have the desire to be a cuckold.

ch

One Sign you might be a cuckold! the Porn Preference

Sign #1

In case you’re having trouble swallowing this idea and the fact that so many men do fantasize about cuckolding (pun happily intended), consider this: this book, “A Billion Wicked Thoughts”, it's revealed that the term “cuckold” is the second most searched for word  in all of porn-dom.

Keep in mind that porn do account for over 1/3rd of all internet traffic in the world, which means there are a lot of horny individuals out there. and growing.

So what kind of porn might indicate an interest in the cuckold lifestyle?

Do you like watching a scene where a woman is having sex in front of her lover or husband hot, this could mean you have a desire to be a cuckold.

Do you like watching a scene where a woman is having sex with a well endowed black male in front of her lover or husband hot, this could also mean you have a desire to be a cuckold.

Do you think of your partner when you’re watching a man with a much large cock give it to a woman or even your wife or lover, then this could mean you have a desire to be a cuckold.

If you get turned on watching women dominating men or man, this could mean you have a   desire to be a cuckold.

If you get hard in your shorts when you think about being forced to dress up and act like a girl, this could mean you have a desire to be a sissy cuckold.

Do you get hard in your shorts when you think about humiliated about being less endowed than than the woman's lover,  this could mean you have a desire to be a cuckold and also love SPH which sand's for Small Penis Humiliation..

ch

Do think cuckolds are rare?

NOPE... Think again far from the truth.

According to the Author Dr. David Ley, Ph.D, author of Insatiable Wives and has a Master's and Doctoral degrees in clinical psychology from the University of New Mexico, that up to 20% of the US male population fantasizes about sharing their wife /girlfriend with someone else. 

In case you were wondering, that about to 24 million men in 2017, although Dr. Ley notes that only around 2% of  men will ever actually do anything about their fantasy/desires.

It really rather begs the BIG question, doesn’t it now? 

How do you know or would you know if you’re one of those 24 million men turned on by wife being shared?

How do you know really if you might be a cuckold?

Those question can only really be answered by oneself!

ch

Diary entry. April 5

i’m sitting in my office taking a bit of a mental break from the children i work with. so funny really age does not always make you mature sometimes, these children kind of feed each other somehow and then that cause pointing fingers at he did this he did that.

agggh!

so a lot of time i keep to myself and stay out of there bullshit. which makes me think of many things about our sexual lifestyle choices me and my wife have. funny if my work place co-workers knew if i was a submissive cuckold husband they would freak out. but i don’t really care how they feel as i’m very proud of who and what i am.

so when i work on this part of my job i can do it and think of many things that will get me through the daily work grind and ignore the children as I like to call them and do it safely as know one needs to get injured on the job.

most times i think of erotic stuff about my wife/Mistress and her lovers, or of my submissive desires. which you will see over time as i will put them down for all to see. hope you all have a great day and stay warm as in the Southern Ontario is crazy cold.. Ottawa right now as i write this -8 C but with the windchill factor -22 C,

ch

April 2 - my first blog/Diary entry.

as i sit and stare at the my tablet as i'm listening to one of my many records in my collection which is over 4000 LP's. 

i drift off to my early teenage days of my sexual life that slowly leads me down the road to where i’m happily living now.

i met this beautiful young lady at one of my many jobs that i had while i was in school which was 3 at one time. i can remember so vividly our first date ever which was "An Officer and a Gentleman" as well as her beautiful smile and eyes, to me taking her home after our job.  

f.y.i letting everyone know it was also in the opposite direction (end) of the city. at this point she had a boyfriend, and who really was a selfish insecure guy.

also neither of us drove or even had a car it was walking, bus or cab.

i most times walked her home which was 16 block’s heading east and i actually lived almost 40 block heading south west from the job.

but it never ever bothered me doing this as i really enjoyed her company, sometimes I would catch a bus after i walked her home. other times i would walk the 56 block’s depending on which way i walked and enjoy life and evening that so many of us at that time enjoyed that was all around me.

she was younger than me very pretty and was so protected from the real world i being a bit older than her and was a more of crazy wild metal freak to so many. lol

also for those who care do.. the record i'm listening is a original pressing from the 1980 i purchased then of the Canadian rocker's from the 1980’s called Loverboy and it is also self titled that as well.

that’s all for now sorry if not all sexual!

hope everyone had a great "easter" long weekend. 

p.s. just so you know as a submissive.. i write in lowercase always.

ch