My conundrum of the P.A. piercing & Chastity Cages!

So as you cab tell from some of my Diary writing that i’m in a D/s relationship not 100% of the time as we have a vanilla life and one with kids and other family members.

So i’m not submissive around the clock physically, but mentally i would say 75-80% of the time i am, either way my Femdom wife owns my cock always.

 The Mrs. bought and gave me my first chastity cage for Christmas one year a Chrome CB6000 from a store in Montreal called "Priape". Loved it and used it often, actually wore the chrome off the inside of it, partially from use and my P.A. piercing at the time i would say i was wearing a 12 gage.

Now that is funny, sounds way more impressive than it actually is! LoL.

So at this time i was a proud man with length of 6" with a semi thick girth. But that changed for many reasons not a scientist or doctor.. so not going to make assumptions, just tell you or anyone who might read this, if any.

We’ve purchased several male chastity devices since for a number of reasons, i should really state i purchased these. Even if my Mrs. was aware i felt it was my duty to.

I can tell you i've never tried or found my cock easily getting out of them, meaning escaping from their confines, but i never wanted to either. Our next one was a cheap Chinese one, supposedly stainless steel version but not.. just chromed.

 It was a CB6000 version, the only thing i can tell you about it that was good, price and found out i much more preferred the weight of the metal ones.

The next one was e-stim version of the CB6000 as well. But the ring which is one with clicking lock.. which i would highly recommend you to stay the fuck away from these.. it gave me more nicks and pinches than any of the other's...still to this date.

 The e-stim was fun, very fun specially when learning. Mrs gave me quite a few high voltage jolts by accident.. lol.

Then later i found my actual favorite chastity cage. This would be years later. It was a micro chastity cage with a urethra tube that removable.

 What i loved and still love about to this day is weight, the choice of the urethral play and the diminished look of my penis. Which then gave me a craving for SPH and further humiliation as well as pushing me mentally further down into a submissive role.

As my ring size had been large by this time i could still wear it with this cage, but had to get the ring taken off if i wanted the urethra tube in.

The tube when purchased was around 3 to 4 inches in length. I found it to short for me personally for longer wear. With this tube in i would last may 3 to 4 hours max.

Went to Home Depot and bought a small amount of food grade silicone tubing, usually used for water supply. I cut a 8" peice roughly heated the edges to make sure round smooth... do not burn it, just heating it up.

Now i can wear it for days. But keep in mind a couple of things. One hygiene is extremely important in the first place, but with urethra play extra care always.

Used plenty of safe hygienic lube always. Remove the tube a minimum of once a day and clean well with soap and hot water. I've worn mind up to 3 weeks with no issues, but a cleaning regiment was being done.

No we've just recently up the gage to the 2nd last size we wish, well to date anyways, so my micro chastity cage won't work with this one at all. So had to do more research and found one that would work. But it's not a micro cage.. and had just found a new ultimate micro cage i wanted... might still get later.

 A note to the many who ask why chastity play or a P.A. piercing.

 So for many male (and Female) subs and their Domme's and/or Dom's, the symbolism of a male(in my case) chastity device is what matters most, not its inescapability but that is the preferred preference to many of us . And as with other forms of sex play and most aspects of healthy relationships, the honour system is what truly makes it work.

As in any negotiated relationship or contract, you can find ways to cheat. But really why cheat? They’re easy to keep on if you’re genuinely interested in keeping your commitment as well as submitting.

Fun fact: Locking a guy’s cock in an inescapable device doesn’t prevent him from coming if he truly wants to, he would just have to get very creative about it. But keep this in mind you would be only cheating on yourself and lying to yourself. A Domme(in my case) will know by your mood, attention to her or lack of it, and the amount of ejaculate you produce. 

This is the one i wanted next, called a few names, to Ultimate Micro, Eunuch or Castrate Cage.

Another note: longer locked in and stimulated by my wife/Domme i often release ejaculate when going to the washroom, never knowing till i stand up to wipe my cage area and fush.

I’ve yet to discover after taking to many fellow submissives in chastity in as many kinds of device's that if their mindset wants to achieve a stolen orgasm they can achieve this orgasm if they're holding a powerful wand massager against it.

So if your Dominant is locking up your cock to prevent you from coming, she’ll also need to lock up her vibrators or remove them so you won't have access to them.

Lots of men are shy or lie to themselves about being a true submissive in my opinion, so they’ll say all kinds of things like.

I just wanted to make sure you all understood that chastity is a long-term gamefor many, and you cant think off the bat you can do a week or more, it takes time to grow into the longer term.

For most of us in chastity devices, it’s a 24/7 affair—literally around the clock. But if you can't or not capable of remaining in a submissive headspace for more than a few hours, you’ll need to talk to your partner, before the padlock clicks shut, just how long she intends to keep your cock locked up.

Being locked also has another side effect that you wouldn’t perhaps think about or even anticipate, Whenever you become aroused, you will feel your cock on the cage. It can be anything from a gentle reminder to a vice-like grip, depending on your arousal levels.

And whenever this happens, your mind automatically will always turn to your key holder, even if they’re not around.

These are my opinion and thoughts.

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